餵奶和换尿片对我来说都不是大难题,因为由儿子出世到现在,每天已反反复复练习过无数次。最令我感到紧张的是替儿子洗澡,虽然已安装了婴儿沐浴网,但手抱着湿漉漉的婴孩,仍是会无比的紧张,生怕一不留神抱他跌落地上,又怕替他穿衣服的手法不够纯熟,会使他着凉生病。
这种紧张的状况大约于一个月左右便渐渐地消失,一来是因为熟能生巧,二来是儿子的身体长大了点,令我没有之前般担心。
在替儿子洗澡的时候,我会轻轻用水拍拍他的心口,凝望着他,跟他说说话,令儿子有安全感,不会惊慌,这也是一种母子间的沟通。儿子也会凝望着我,彷彿明白妈妈跟他说的话。
虽说母性是天生的,但没有人生下来便懂得如何照顾小孩子,都是一步一步,慢慢地学习,慢慢地摸索,然后便成为真正称职的母亲。
(待续)
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